Programs

So your interested in Femdom but have no idea how to put your dream into motion? In this interactive program we will discuss what you personally want from BDSM, Understanding Femom practices. How to plan your first scene -
We will share some the personal and intimate experiences of how we have incorporated Female Domination into our relationships. Any Femdom (a female dominant) at the beginning of her being involved in BDSM activities does face some problems which prevent her from getting pleasure of what she is doing. Actually any dominant can have her own problems as people differ and have their own psychological peculiarities. However, there are some problems common for any Femdom, such as: fear of not being up to stereotypes, lack of self-confidence and lack of skill in scenario planning. The information provided in this interactive program will let you know more about these problems and the ways these problems can be solved.

Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
Program Directors: MissBonnie and MissBitch

"Your partner has approached you with a request. You know it is important you see it means a great deal to him, but you have no idea what it could be. He is flushed, excited, nervous, and a little tentative to talk to you. Clearly this is very important to him and most likely then, to you! Then he blurts it out. "I want you to be my Mistress".

He wants to serve you as a "slave" forever. The words alone, "Mistress" and "slave", dominance and submission, maybe ran chills up and down your spine. They conjure up images of dungeons, chains, racks, and whips…of weak, pathetic men getting whipped and tortured by a cold-hearted, leather-clad bitch with whips and thigh high boots.

Perhaps you have discussed this sort of thing before, perhaps you have even taken on roles during sex play, or it could even hit you from the blue. Your reaction can range from, I'm repulsed, isn't this a little weird, your interest maybe piqued for some kinky fun but the hell do you do this? To you've always wanted a slave! Chances are, your reaction is somewhere towards the more conservative extreme. In fact, if you've always been waiting for a man to be your 24 / 7 slave, this program probably isn't for you [although it still may shed a little alternative light on your approach]. This program is targeted to the new Domme just starting out on her journey; the woman who would had never considered her partner to be her submissive.

The quest for a fulfilling Femdom relationship is a journey of many stages. At each level, the next steps seem impossible and unattainable.

All you have to do is, with no training or preparation; step into role culture has taught you is wrong. You have to deal with his male fantasy. Even though he is the one who wants you to do this, you need to lead him to a place neither of your know exists. When you do that, you will then have to maintain it.

We can understand just how you are feeling, overwhelmed at not knowing where to start out! But you can do it, if you wish to pursue this further, and you can enjoy the process. It is possible to travel together to places of which you may never have dreamed existed when you know the steps. We can help you with the steps in your journey towards a Femdom relationship. Such as planning your first scene and more.

What we have tried to present here in this program is a combination of the basic psychological aspects and the basic physical skills and knowledge needed for a Femdom love style in a user-friendly format. We hope that as you finish this program one of the things you have come away with is a stronger sense of the personal power and eroticism you carry inside of you, That power is just waiting to be tapped into and let out.

Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
Program Directors: MissBonnie and MissBitch

We all face problems in our search for a BDSM partner. It's the ultimate irony that at the same time male subs bemoan their single fate in chat rooms, Many female dominant who simply cannot find a good sub. Something is obviously going very wrong, somewhere!
We will discuss what you personally want from Femdom, what dominants want - and you want from a dominant. We will explore where to find dominants, how to get yourself noticed by them, how to initiate contact with them, and ways to deal with the stresses of searching.

Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
Program Directors: MissBonnie, MissBitch, RedWench, Ms. Abbysynthe, Olowan

Sometimes all the fun you have online simply can't fulfil your personal need for real time BDSM. It's like an itch you can't scratch... But how do you actually move into the lifestyle? This program advises you how to locate and contact your local scene, teaches everything you need to know about munches, and provides lots of excellent advice of attending your first BDSM club, workshop or play party. We discuss why all BDSM venues have different rules and etiquette, how to survive and enjoy your first play party, and how to acquire some basic real time skills.

Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
Program Directors: MissBonnie, MissBitch, RedWench, Ms. Abbysynthe, Olowan

Cyber Entertainment Programs

You've always wanted to try an online Mistress to submit to. But how do you find one, and what exactly happens when you do?! This two week course will introduce you the world of cyber submission, giving a tantalizing taste of submitting to not one, but two, beautiful and formidable Dommes

Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
Program Directors: MissBonnie and Missbitch

For many of us real time kinky play is not a possibility, for many reasons. So we must fulfill our kinky needs online. Lucky then, that cyber play is so much fun! But how do you get started without making a total idiot of yourself?! This course explores the realms of cyber kink and equips you with the skills and confidence to become an active player in forums and chatrooms. We will discuss ways find and choose your cyber partners (including ways to avoid online predators), chatroom etiquette and cyber aftercare - a very important subject for cyber submissives.

Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
Program Directors: MissBonnie and MissBitch

For many of us real time kinky play is not a possibility, for many reasons. So we must fulfill our kinky needs online. Lucky then, that cyber play is so much fun! But how do you get started as an online dominant without making a total idiot of yourself?! This interactive course explores the realms of cyber kink and equips you with the skills and confidence to become an active player in forums and chatrooms. We will discuss ways find and choose your cyber partners (including ways to avoid online predators), chatroom etiquette, cyber aftercare (a very important subject for cyber players) and lots of great ideas for dominating subs online.

Expressions of interest can be listed in the Forum
Program Directors: MissBonnie and MissBitch

Programs Under Development

To be announced

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